Never Assume

(This was originally posted to my main site in February 2011, but it seems to fit so well, I've included it here.)

Never Assume

That silence:

• is agreement
• or worse, acquiescence
• is ignorance
• is indifference
• signifies that something is wrong
• means you have won the argument...

That a smile:

• can only have one meaning
• is insignificant
• is unwarranted
• is powerless

That speaking loudly:

• puts you in control
• conveys confidence
• or passion
• makes you sound knowledgeable
• creates a commanding presence
• ensures that those around you are listening

That being polite:

• is ever a sign of weakness
• is a result of intimidation
• is outdated
• has no place in some situations

That respect:

• is less important than being liked
• or even the same as...
• does not need to be earned
• does not begin with Self
• is conditional

Never underestimate the power of good manners, quiet contemplation, subtle strength, self-respect, humility and a demure presence. If you are going to put all your cards on the table, be prepared to have them played.

~Raven Sexton~